Courage and kindness forge life-affirming sex

Expanding your capacity for profound sexual intimacy and desire takes more courage than time. If you want to progress quickly, keep your focus on addressing how you participate in the patterns and meanings that keep desire low. This is hard to do because our brains are much better at tracking other people’s behavior than our own, and because it takes a lot more courage to deal with your own insecurities and immaturities than to point out your partner’s.